Its a New Year!!!!
Many people will try and reduce all our motivations to either avoiding pain and/or increasing pleasure. This strategy works great for most of the animal kingdom, but in humans, these two motivations aren't exactly opposites. "Pleasure" does not always, and in fact, almost never leads to "Happiness".
Let me give you an example: let's say that you're dieting, or starting on an exercise program, or stopping smoking. When you give in to your temptations it yields an immediately pleasurable sensation, but is always followed with feelings of; guilt, remorse, failure, hopelessness, etc. So the momentary pleasure did not give you actual happiness. True happiness requires a commitment to forego pleasure and endure a certain amount of pain in order to make meaningful personal gains.
Shaolin-Do students forego the PLEASURE of:
Shaolin-Do students face the PAIN of:
Ironically, when you seek pleasure you most often are assuring inevitable misery. Lao Tzu (Tao Te Ching) says that "The fool mistakes misery for pleasure".
-sitting passively in front of the T.V. every evening in search of entertainment.
-Partying late Friday nights (before Saturday morning classes)
-Skipping class on any whim.
-Constant physical challenge
-Humbling (often humiliating) acknowledgement of one's own limitations
-Caring about things like Loyalty, Honor, And Right Action, which consumer society seems to discourage.
-Having soreness in muscles you didn't even know you had.
If you don't believe me then go to a bar any night of the week and don't drink any alcohol. Just watch the people closely and try to determine if they look truly happy. What Lao Tze might have said (maybe it can be translated this way) is "The fool mistakes pleasure for happiness."
Short Term Misery = Long Term Happiness
Are YOU ready for the best year of your life?
If you are already a student, try to attend at least 2 classes per week. Keep that up for 1 month and it will become a natural habit.
Ready to become a student?
Just contact me by email at tampashaolin@yahoo.com or by phone at 813-681-3259 to schedule your first Free Introductory Class . Over 90% of our current students joined after their first class.
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